Monday, December 3, 2012

What's the meaning of this?

"In order to be irreplaceable one must always be different." -Coco Chanel 





Biologically speaking, no two human beings can be the same. Not even twins. If I stamp my thumb print and you stamp yours, they will appear to be the same, but the closer you study them, you will conclude that they are not. Now I know Coco Chanel was not talking about DNA codes... all though I do wonder if she knew about it. That's not my point... my point is, how different do you have to be in order to become "irreplaceable" and why would you want to be "irreplaceable"?
In what way... would you want to be "irreplaceable"?
Who would want to replace me? Who was Coco Chanel feeling this "replacement" from?
Because the more I think about it the more I say, "well... if I have a job that pays well, gives me great hours and amazing benefits then I will work as "DIFFERENTLY" as possible for me NOT to be replaced. But if I have a friendship in which there is no joy then by all means replace me!! Or even so... that means I can replace anyone as well.

Coco Chanel's  quote leads me to mine,  "In order for me not to replace you... you must always be "irreplaceable" - Abby Love

 So like I said... Two people can't be the same. But psychologically speaking, two people can be compatible. True friends can be difficult to find. But when you have them, they are naturally "irreplaceable" So I start to think and meditate, which of my friends have tried to stay by my side? It takes 50/50 for a relationship to work smoothly, but after a while of doing 75/25, people become tired. The friendship becomes hard work rather than cultivate love; key word "willingly". So who are my true friends?

1. People who share my beliefs and moral standards but that also prove their faith
2. People who tell me what I need to hear rather than what I want to hear
3. People who accept me for the way I am and are not bothered my my laughter, my smiles or moodiness
4. People who don't want to be replaced

Those are true friends, and I'm happy to know that I have a couple who fit all 4. <3

Ps: its 2:34 in the morning.
Pss: oh oh oh and I love it when I don't see a friend for years and when we do, its as if we never said goodbye! <3 <3




1 comment:

  1. Hmmm..... a friend is the one that walks into the wrong house to change clothes for your party. @abel1970

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